“What are you doing? What did you draw? Do you want to play cars?”
Can feel intrusive or like a test, interrupting the child’s play. Fine outside play, but best avoided during playtime.
“Let’s build a house; Why don’t you use the blue crayon; Hand me the doll”
Takes control away from the child and limits creativity. Okay in daily life, but should be avoided during playtime.
“Why are you being such a baby; You are being very difficult right now; Stop using it like that”
Undermines self-esteem, creates a negative atmosphere, and damages the relationship. It should be avoided entirely.
